I personally think it’s extremely important to hold ourselves accountable and up to a certain standard if we want to grow and better ourselves as a person.
Obviously, when we are young we have the guidance of a parent or guardian which unfortunately not everyone has the privilege to but we have an adult who instills discipline in us but as we turned into an adult, we often forget to take on that position/role and that’s when we start lacking regarding certain aspects.
In today’s post, I wanted to share with you some ways on how to discipline yourself. Without further ado, let’s jump into the post!
Je pense personnellement qu’il est extrêmement important de nous responsabiliser et de nous conformer à un certain niveau si nous voulons grandir et nous améliorer en tant que personne.
Évidemment, lorsque nous sommes jeunes, nous bénéficions des conseils d’un parent ou d’un tuteur, ce que malheureusement tout le monde n’a pas le privilège d’avoir, mais nous avons un adulte qui nous inculque la discipline. Mais une fois devenus adultes, nous oublions souvent d’assumer cette position/ce rôle et c’est là que nous commençons à manquer de certains aspects.
Dans l’article d’aujourd’hui, je voulais partager avec vous quelques moyens de vous discipliner. Sans plus tarder, passons à l’article !
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1 | BEING HONEST & OPEN WITH YOURSELF
I know that in some cases, you have to put on a mask in front of other people in your life but that doesn’t apply when you are by yourself with no one around you. I cannot stress how important it is to be honest with yourself.
We are our own biggest critics, I would even go as far as saying that nobody would judge the way we judge our own-self but we also have to look at ourselves from a third point of view and separate our objective thoughts from our subjective ones.
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2 | BEING SELF-AWARE OF YOUR THOUGHTS & ACTIONS
The real change starts happening when we become self-aware. When you start to acknowledge your thoughts, opinions, values, morals and beliefs, you become aware of the person you are and from then on you either choose to remain the same person or change yourself.
Obviously, whether you grow and better yourself or do the complete opposite is a totally different matter but once you know who you are, you become aware of what you lack & what you want and what you want to change.
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3 | NOT BEING HYPOCRITICAL
We all know how easy it is to give advice to others but how difficult it is to applying it to ourselves, it’s pretty much the same case here as well. Don’t say or do something that you aren’t going to follow yourself and I also think it’s not fair to hold others to a certain standard if you aren’t holding yourself the same way and vice versa.
If you are kind to other people then you have to show that same level of kindness towards yourself as well. If you show grace and empathy towards others then show that same amount of grace towards yourself. Discipline requires a lot of time, effort and work, you cannot change yourself overnight so please be kind to yourself.
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Thank you so much for reading! – xo N
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New Lune 
These acts are disciplines. They require constant attention and a gentle hand to keep applying.
Such a good read!! Being honest with yourself also shows how much you love and respect yourself♥️
I need to be more mindful of being a hypocrite but in my thought process we are all hypocritical about something.
I have been trying to live more mindful. Thank you for sharing this.