3 Ways to Romanticise Life in a Healthy Manner.

I’m going to start off by saying that there isn’t any good or bad way to romanticise your life but when you look at this topic on the internet, some of them are heavily influenced by overconsumption and toxic positivity.

You don’t need to spend money on things that you never felt you needed to have in order to see life in a healthier and brighter way unless those things will help you or bring you joy in the long run.

Suppressing your negative emotions won’t make your life feel lighter, you will only accumulate & store all those emotions and release them in an unhealthy manner. In today’s post, I wanted to share with you 3 ways to romanticise life in a ‘healthy’ manner. As always, everyone’s approach is different – what works for you might not work for another and vice versa. Hopefully, these will give you ideas as to what you can do in order to romanticise life in your own way.

Je vais commencer par dire qu’il n’y a pas de bonne ou de mauvaise façon de romancer sa vie, mais quand on regarde ce sujet sur Internet, on se rend compte que certaines d’entre elles sont fortement influencées par la surconsommation et la positivité toxique.

Vous n’avez pas besoin de dépenser de l’argent pour des choses dont vous n’avez jamais ressenti le besoin pour voir la vie d’une manière plus saine et plus lumineuse, à moins que ces choses ne vous aident ou ne vous apportent de la joie à long terme.

Supprimer vos émotions négatives ne rendra pas votre vie plus légère, vous ne ferez qu’accumuler et stocker toutes ces émotions et les libérer de manière malsaine. Dans l’article d’aujourd’hui, je voulais partager avec vous 3 façons de romancer la vie d’une manière « saine ». Comme toujours, l’approche de chacun est différente : ce qui fonctionne pour vous peut ne pas fonctionner pour quelqu’un d’autre et vice versa. J’espère que ces éléments vous donneront des idées sur ce que vous pouvez faire pour romancer la vie à votre façon.

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ESTABLISHING A SLOW PACED ROUTINE & LIFESTYLE

Slow living is a lifestyle which has existed for decades now but it has become very popular due to social media during the last couple of years. If you look online, you will see thousands and thousands of routines and guides in regard to this subject but the one thing I would recommend for you to take away from all those content is to take your time and work at a leisurely pace when you can.

Savour your first beverage of the day while sitting down. Eat your dinner slowly while reading a book. Spend time with your loved ones because you want to speak & listen to them, not because you want to check off a task from your to-do list. Don’t be in a hurry to finish a storyline while playing a video game, just take your time with it. Try to incorporate things that bring you joy & rest into your routine and establish them as habits.

Related: How To Slow Down When Life Gets Busy.

 

BEING MINDFUL OF YOUR ACTIONS & WORDS

When you really think about it, romanticising equates to falling in love/being in love and love is a complex emotion on its own. It’s a word that encompasses both positive and negative emotions. You cannot romanticise your life without reflecting on yourself, both the positive and negative aspects of yourself and your life.

You have to be self-aware of yourself and be mindful of your actions & words towards others and yourself. You cannot view life in a beautiful way if you aren’t considerate towards others or yourself. The reason I put so much emphasis on the ‘you’ part is because we self-sabotage a lot and unconsciously our brains memorise the words we tell to ourselves which has a lasting impact in our relationships and the way we perceive the world.

Related: 3 Ways to Express Gratitude.

 

PRIORITISING YOUR JOYS

Last but not least, one of the best ways to romanticise life is to prioritise and put your joy & happiness first. This may sound selfish but there comes a time when you have to put yourself first otherwise nobody else will do it. You can still care & empathise with others while choosing to take care of yourself first. You won’t be able to take care of other people’s needs if you don’t take care of yours first.

Your self-care routine shouldn’t be a luxury that you experience once in a blue moon, it should be a normal part of your routine and day-to-day life. You should be able to do things that make you happy instantly, it’s not something you should consider or wonder about. But more than anything, you have to be content with those small joys in life.

Accomplishing major life goals such as owning a house, buying your dream car or having materialistic things are incredible and you should be proud of yourself. However, they are not everything if you don’t have those small joys to look forward to. Also, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have a fulfilling life if you haven’t accomplished those goals and you shouldn’t let the society dictate what your goals & happiness should be. Being content and grateful for what you already have is the way to romanticise your life.

Related: 3 Habits to Feel Warm & Content.

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Thank you so much for reading! – xo N

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