It can be difficult to find qualities that you love in yourself if your environment has conditioned you to believe that your strengths or qualities aren’t that great or beautiful in their own way. Sometimes, you can love qualities within yourself without any external validation but sustaining that feeling might be the difficult part.
In today’s post, I wanted to share with you a few ways to develop qualities that you love in yourself. This whole idea or topic might seem insignificant or unproductive but it’s extremely important to find & nurture qualities that you love and are confident about. It doesn’t only improve your confidence but also your perception about so many different things in your life.
Il peut être difficile de trouver les qualités que vous aimez en vous si votre environnement vous a conditionné à croire que vos forces ou vos qualités ne sont pas si grandes ou belles en elles-mêmes. Parfois, on peut apprécier certaines qualités en soi sans aucune validation extérieure, mais entretenir ce sentiment peut être la partie la plus difficile.
Dans l’article d’aujourd’hui, je voulais partager avec vous quelques pistes pour développer ces qualités que vous aimez en vous. Ce sujet peut paraître anodin ou improductif, mais il est extrêmement important de trouver et de cultiver ces qualités que vous aimez et dans lesquelles vous avez confiance. Cela améliore non seulement votre confiance en vous, mais aussi votre perception de nombreux aspects de votre vie.
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UNIQUENESS ISN’T A BAD THING
A lot of times, having a quality that is unique can put you in the spotlight and make you stand out in a crowd, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to view it as a weakness or flaw if it’s not harmful to you or anybody else. You can turn this aspect of yourself into a strength and transform it into a quality.
I know it may seem like we are all following this one linear path and we all have similar views, ideals and perceptions, but the truth is we are all different and unique in our own ways.
We all move forward at a different pace, we all have different likes & dislikes—even things like beauty, art, music, etc. are subjective to each one of us. We all have different preferences and paths in life and that’s what makes us unique so why should a unique aspect of yourself not be a quality?
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WHAT IF THE ROLES WERE REVERSED?
The majority of the times, people struggle to find qualities they love in yourself because of their upbringing and environment which is completely understandable. How can you love a part of yourself when your surrounding is trying to say the opposite? However, you shouldn’t let those dysfunctional words dictate and control your mind.
What would you say if instead of you in your position, it was your child—would you think the same way about your child as well? If the answer is no then imagine yourself as your younger self and try to find and nurture your qualities through this manner.
Many people don’t acknowledge or realise that their younger self was a child as well because we are so used to seeing the world through our eyes that we forget to see ourselves through the same eyes. Sometimes, you have to parent yourself in order to take care of yourself.
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FIGURING OUT WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON
We are not one layered or one dimensional character in a novel, we are all complex and multi-layered people who live on this earth, and as I mentioned previously we all have different preferences, thoughts & opinions. You cannot develop qualities that you love in yourself if you don’t even know what you like or dislike to begin with.
It’s through your journey of self-discovery that you may be able to find aspects of yourself you didn’t realise or acknowledge before, and it’s through this process you will be able to find aspects of yourself that you will admire, respect and love.
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Thank you so much for reading! – xo N
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New Lune 
Beautiful post. Thankful for you, friend.
Thank you so much! 😊
I love the idea of thinking if the roles were reversed like approaching yourself the way you would others, with respect and care and zero judgement unless its constructive. Great post as always! ☺️💗
Thank you so much, love! ❤️