As you get older, you realise that there are many things in life that you don’t have control over whether it’s the actions of other people or simply life itself. However, in order to enjoy life and live in the moment – you have to let go of certain things and that’s what I wanted to talk about in today’s post. As always, if you are interested – keep on reading!
En vieillissant, vous réalisez qu’il y a beaucoup de choses dans la vie sur lesquelles vous n’avez aucun contrôle, qu’il s’agisse des actions des autres ou simplement de la vie elle-même. Cependant, pour profiter de la vie et vivre l’instant présent, il faut abandonner certaines choses et c’est ce dont je voulais parler dans l’article d’aujourd’hui. Comme toujours, si vous êtes intéressé, continuez à lire !
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REGRET
I wouldn’t necessarily say that having regrets is a bad thing because those regrets better ourselves as a person and make us more self-aware and conscious of our words & actions but that doesn’t mean that you can let them take control of your life. Regrets are there to allow you to grow as a person, they are not there to stop you from enjoying new opportunities, relationships and people.
Related: Dealing With Disappointment.
RESENTMENT
Due to traumatic events or bad experiences, it’s completely ok to resent certain people, situation or even life. However, that resentment is only adding an extra weight to your shoulders when you are supposed to feel free and happy. Life is very short and you can’t live it while giving such a huge amount of power to those who don’t deserve an ounce of your attention – you deserve way more than that.
Related: 3 Ways To Enjoy The Present.
TOXICITY
I tried to find a better term for this point but at the end, I think anything that drains you, makes you feel uncomfortable and doesn’t make you feel fulfilled is harmful. As more years pass, I realise that life is meant to be peaceful and that is something you can only achieve if you allow yourself to have that privilege. You can’t expect to live a stress-free & peaceful life while being in an environment or in a relationship that drains your time & energy, it’s simply not possible.
Related: Breaking Out Of A Toxic Cycle.
Thank you so much for reading! – xo N
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Enlightening post Lune.
Thank you! 😊
Great blog post. Amen to that. I really don’t resent people, I just let God handle it.
Thank you! 😊
Agreed!
All those things belong in the past. Onwards and upwards we go in the new year🤗.
Thank you so much! 😊
Definitely. Positive vibes. Here’s to 2024 girl !!!
Thank you lovely! ❤️
Here’s to a better 2024!
Yes! Thank you so much for reading 😊
These are all so true and important. Thanks for sharing.